Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Book Review - Glaen


Glaen - by Fred R. Lybrand

I’ve always been skeptical of books that claim to be novels but are actually nothing more than sermons in (lame) disguise.

Glaen was not one of those books.

The subtitle says it right off - A novel message on romance, love, and relating. No tricks. The message is the main point of the book. But once you know that, you can relax and dive into a compelling story woven through with relationship principles that we learn along with the main character, Annie.

Glaen reminded me a little of Peter Kreeft’s books in which Socrates travels to different places in time to have lively discussions with everyone from Marx to modern college professors. But more plot happens in Glaen, so it’s a bit more readable.

Enough about the style. What, you might ask, is the book actually about?

A Girl, a Professor, and an Assignment about... Relationships?

The Socrates-like character, the mysterious professor Glaen, helps Annie, a college student, with an assignment about how relationships work. She makes observations, notices lies and countering truths, and discovers the “secrets” of great relationships that are almost too simple to believe (but rarely practiced). Her observations come in the midst of interaction with her parents and friends.

This is not another dating vs. courtship book. I guarantee that the core principles in Glaen are applicable to you, whatever the state of your relationships – single, dating, or married. 

Personally Challenging

This book came out at a perfect time in my life! Not that I have fully begun to live out all the truths, by any means, but I have been given unmistakable opportunities to practice them.

I can’t give away the plot, or tell you everything Annie discovers – you’ll have to read the book yourself to find out! But I will share one truth (for now) and how it has challenged my thinking and actions.
Lie – If you follow the right process, you will be guaranteed a good marriage.

Countering Truth – No process can guarantee a good relationship, because there are no future guarantees in relationships. Relationships happen in the present.

A while back I adopted the notion that if I just do things carefully and right, God would give me a permanent (and reasonably perfect) marriage some day. To this end, I began reading about and clinging to the concept of courtship instead of dating. It seemed such a great plan, I thought.

But as various conversations in conjunction with this book have been teaching me, even the best plan cannot guarantee the future. Cling to good principles, yes, but then leave the future to God and focus on being honest, putting others first, speaking the truth in love, and relating without strings or requirements.

Here’s a quote to that effect that I copied and stuck on my desk:

When someone accepts the fact that she cannot know the future, then a new kind of power or opportunity comes into her life. She can quit trying to force and manipulate the future. She can quit trying to control her relationships. In fact, she should finally be able to start enjoying the relationship once she gives up on trying to guarantee its future.

Glaen, page 77

This principles in this book are tough, but in the end also incredibly freeing. If you’re hungry for truth that will help you start relating in a way that works, go with Annie and meet the strange character, Glaen.

Posted in the March of Books on YLCF

6 comments:

  1. That sounds like such a good book! I hope I'll be able to get it some time. Thanks for reviewing it.
    If the book you referenced is Socrates Meets Jesus, then I've read and loved it.

    I really love what you said,
    "A while back I adopted the notion that if I just do things carefully and right, God would give me a permanent (and reasonably perfect) marriage some day. To this end, I began reading about and clinging to the concept of courtship instead of dating. It seemed such a great plan, I thought.
    But as various conversations in conjunction with this book have been teaching me, even the best plan cannot guarantee the future. Cling to good principles, yes, but then leave the future to God and focus on being honest, putting others first, speaking the truth in love, and relating without strings or requirements."

    That is so true! I have recently been learning the same thing.

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  2. Nice review Rael. Have you considered contacting Fred about it? Maybe you could both trade hyper links or something mutually beneficial. Just a thought.

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  3. Rael,

    After reading your review, I wanted read Glaen myself!

    The cool part to me as an author is that you got the point...and you can see what it's going to do for you!...well, and that is wasn't drivel :-)

    I would love to swap / post your link.

    Grace and peace,

    Fred Lybrand
    www.glaen.com

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  4. Rael,

    So, I didn't proof my comments before I hit send (I type too fast...about 70 wpm). My son insisted a writer needs to write correctly! Here you go---

    After reading your review, I wanted to read Glaen myself!

    The cool part to me as an author is that you got the point...and you can see what it's going to do for you!...well, and also that it wasn't drivel :-)

    I would love to swap / post your link.

    Grace and peace,

    Fred Lybrand
    www.glaen.com

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  5. Merriette, I'm glad you could relate! I was indeed thinking of "Socrates Meets Jesus" - Kreeft's other books are great too, but since that one is set in modern times, it felt the most related to Glaen.


    Erik, thanks for the suggestion! :-)


    Fred, I feel honored whenever authors visit my blog. I love helping promote good books, and it's icing on the cake to hear that my reviews are appreciated by the writer. Feel free to post whatever bit of my review you like and/or link to my site. Thanks for stopping by!

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  6. What a powerful reminder: "Relationships happen in the present." Not only does this give hope for the future, it alleviates guilt from the past (of not having done it "perfectly"). Thank you for an insightful review. -from a YLCF "mom"

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